not that i’ve been active but heads up for indefinite hiatus
u should get a band aid or two for that.
Protesters occupy St. Louis University.
Early morning, Monday, October 13th
I’d prefer if people didn’t reblog this but it’s important to me to point this out.
Someone being a shitty person and friend is not the same as someone being abusive and if you frame what is clearly personal issues among you and your (ex)friend as an abuse call out you should be ashamed of yourself.
If you feel the need to defend yourself against shit talking publicly, go for it. But don’t thrown in accusations of gaslighting when you don’t even know what it means. Don’t say THIS PERSON IS *POTENTIALLY* ABUSIVE. What you’re saying is they’re an asshole but were not abusive, but you’re gonna smear them as MAYBEEE THEY COULD BEEE because then tumblr will flip out and pay attention to you.
Abuse is a serious problem and it’d be cool if people didn’t just use abuse narratives as framing structures to their non abusive relationships to seem more valid about complaining about their obviously fucked up friends. Abuse survivors deal with enough, don’t fucking belittle this shit.
I hesitate to even make this post because i don’t like shitting on the experiences of someone else as invalid. The intent of this post is not to say you should endure any shitty treatment from anyone regardless of if it is abuse or not. Please -if you suspect someone may be abusing you, confide in someone you trust. It can be extremely hard to even understand what you’re going through because of how abusive relationships work. Even if you are not being abused, if someone is treating you like shit, you deserve better.
There’s a lot of unhappy sentiments on here towards LGBTA+ allies for good reason, but honestly a lot of what I see on here about abuse and supporting those who have been abused comes across very similarly to me. I’ve seen people use it publicly to make themselves look better, but in private spaces ignore abuse they were aware of because it was inconvenient and they decided it wasn’t a problem. So i really don’t appreciate seeing posts using abuse narratives for attention when people who are actually abused get ignored and told they deserved what happened to them or are making it up.
THANK YOU SO MUCH EVERYONE!!! <3333333 kisses all of you
Thank you kyleeeee / w \ <333333333 (and no worries, i’m just being whiny bc i usually don’t have to deal with this shit. BUT I HOPE SO TOO LOL)
LOL the notes have crawled down on the post so the asks have too thankfully. But so far it’s super chill and rad, thank you Rachel!!! <3333
omg… sarah you’re so sweet! and no worries, I think I mentioned my bday was coming up once but didn’t mention a date. Everyone has birthdays this time of year ahaha. But this is such a sweet message, thank yout! I feel the same way about you, you’re great and always a pleasure to have pop up on my dash :»> thank you so much! <3
Oh man, just what I wanted. NO TRADE-INS FOR THIS GUY, you’re in the permanent collection. Thank you!! <333
i just got a message notification but it didn’t show in my inbox, so resend maybe?? unless it’s about urbance then please just leave.
YOU CAN BARELY SEE HER HAIR, ITS THERE I SWEAR.
HAPPY BIRTHDAY polks POLKS!!!!!!!!!!!
ILL TRY NOT TO GET TOO CHEESY since im bad at the application of cheese BUT i love you so much and you are definitely one of the bright spots in my life, and i cant imagine whatd itd be like if we never hit it off; significantly less fun, is my best guess? you’re wonderful and a kick ass friend. I LOVE YOU JUST KNOW THAT <33333
SO I just continued my apparent tradition of making you Rails, but I never know what clothes to draw her in…so i just…she has three little outfits based on what youve sketched her in and her psd has like an extra pair of pants IF THERE IS ANY PARTICULAR OUTFIT YOU WANT LET ME KNOW??? Or if you want a bigger version of one of the others let me know that too. or i can just send you the psd lmao.
I LOVE YOU!! HAPPY BIRTHDAY!!! I HOPE ITS AS WONDERFUL AS YOU ARE!!!!!
here are the other outfits because tumblr makes them all go straight down of course
Man it’s easy to be like TUMBLR’S TRASH but without it I wouldn’t have met so many cool people, and you were one of the first I met on here. So yeah, thx tumblr, ur kinda shitty but you did me a solid. THANK YOU SO MUCH CRU!!! I love these, they’re so cute. And I’m down the this tradition of rail-themed gifts heheh (I would totally love the psd) I love you a lot and thank you for bein there for me darlin <333
so polks turns 47 years old today and this is part of my present to her!! happy b-day, my love! i hope you have a good one because you deserve it!!!!! I LOVE UUUU!!!! ❤
most incred bday gift???
i love you but i regret to inform you that you’re under arrest for these crimes. Who would to this to the elderly on their 85th birthday… God i keep laughing and getting distracted just looking at it AFSGD I LOVE YOU YA DOOFUS, THANK YOU FOR THE GIFTS AND FOR BEING IN MY LIFE!! You are the best <333333333333333333